Can a person ever be independent in life???
What is wrong when you think out of the box??? Why are we always considered to be unconventional when we do that???
Or is being unconventional a crime???
Well!!! These questions are not hypothetical, neither are the answers philosophical....
Not everyone knows what he wants at every single point in time.... If one says he is very clear in his mind and desires in life at any point in time, its cos he believes what he actually wants to believe in, immaterial of whether he would actually believe it or not!!!
Okie... Looks like am complicating things :)
Here, we go!!!
If we are independent in our thoughts and tell people what we feel right away, we are the so called arrogant ones...
If we say, I have my own identity, my own desire in life, we are considered to be selfish...
Being practical most of the times makes people think you are so eccentric in life and you are stone hearted, putting yourself into a nutshell and not really caring about others' emotions.
I dun really understand why any sane human would wanna do all this in life... Can't people even understand this very simple fact???
Just cos you are emotional does not really mean that you can get everything that you want by showering or dumping all your feelings on the person who is analytical and logical in life and expect him to deliver what you want...
Every human does have every right to decide on what he wants in life, what his priorities are and how he wants to live in life... Jus cos of the mere fact that you want him, you just cant thrust your feelings on him and drive him crazy... You never know!!! The ultimate acheivement of yours would end up as pushing a very sensible person into a state of mental depression...
Its high time people tend to realise that practical and sensible people who are a little analytical and logical compared to the chunk of so called 'emotional people', do have emotions and feelings in life... It is also essential to understand that they are not eccentric but are considered to be so, by the society...
The motive of this post is to warn the so called "eccentrice ones" that a very serious attempt to make them become part of the most illogical, stereo typed group, is on in this society of ours and they dont have a choice but to keep fighting against all odds forever and prove the theory - "SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST."
Wonderful bit of content for a post.. ur first detailed one. I am really startled in the way u make those long sentenses, stuff it with content and words and still keep track of the idea.
ReplyDeletehehe u actually went on explaining what it like to be not independent and eccentric on course to explain the otherwise... was certainly a worth bit to read...
Keep it up, and continue when ever u get time..
Would a deeper understanding based on ego-centric and non-ego centric people be better ?
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